Hey guys!
Another day another blog! This one isn’t as light hearted as yesterday so be preparedness for that before you read on!
Let’s talk about friendships In the good & bad times!
When things are going great you feel like you have friends everywhere who doesn’t love a happy friend?
But its when the sh*t hits the fan when you find out who your friends are. When I say that I don’t just mean In times of argument but in health problems & such that’s when you find out who your friends are the real ones.
When I got diagnosed with RA & subsequently started using a wheelchair I ended up having to reset my friendship circle in many respects don’t get me wrong I have some great friends from pre-ra but many couldn’t deal with my new reality.
Recently my dads been sick after having a stroke. Thankfully he’s doing better than he was but it rocked us all as a family but what warmed my heart most was my friends who stuck by me weather it be my friends here in my home town or be it my friends at football (mainly friends at football ) it warmed my heart having a good circle of friends around me who stuck by me and of course all the well wishes from people on twitter it was so lovely.
You see friendships shouldn’t just be about the good times but the bad times as well. Thats true friendship and I’m so glad I have a small but close circle of friends who I know I can call or text any time of the day for a chat or a cry!
Vicky xx
